When You Feel Like You Are Being Tested

Each of us experiences difficult and painful times in our lives. Perhaps it is the loss of a job, a relationship breakup or the loss of a love one. Whatever it is and no matter how much we think we have prepared ourselves for it, and even if we knew it was coming, we still feel blindsided by it. Our very foundation is shaken. And we feel like we are being put through a terrible test. Or so it seems.

But what if you went through a life without any experience that felt like a test? One might be even tempted to wish for that. Yet when you reached the end of this lifetime on earth you would pass on without ever having known what you were made of, without knowing your true strength and character and without anything to take from this experience into the life after this life.

So perhaps our tests are not really tests at all. What if all of these difficult experiences were God’s way of allowing us to see who we really are and how much progress we are making in our lives? What if it was all just to remind us that the real value we bring to the world is us, just the way we are, perceived imperfections and all? And what if our jobs, family and relationships were not designed to be our source of our own happiness or self worth but instead simply mirrors to show us where we are placing our own value? What if everything in life is simply designed to return us to ourselves so that we can fully experience divine love in ourselves and share it with others?

You might be asking at this point how you can know if you passed the test. The answer is always yes no matter what it might look like in a single still frame taken from the video of your human experience. You did not come here to fail. You came here to find love, experience the love of God, the love you have for yourself and the love you share with others.

In short, we are never really tested although at times it can sure feel that way. Instead, we are given life experiences to remind us just how much we are loved by God and the universe who are always working for our highest good.

Lynn Everard

Please note: The author is not a licensed medical or psychological professional and the contents of this blog and its posts are not to prescribe cures or solutions. The reader assumes all responsibility for using the contents for his or her own edification.

When You Lose Your Job

As I write this post today I am reminded of the friends and many former coworkers who lost their jobs over the past month when the company we all used to work for closed down. Others have also lost jobs through no fault of their own. These events are a shock to the system, a kick in the gut to the emotions and bring the mental disorientation of being hit by the proverbial truck. Even if we knew the company was in trouble or if we knew the loss was coming it still almost impossible to prepare one’s self for the raging torrent of second guessing everything about ourselves. Did we do something wrong to deserve this? Are we good enough or capable enough to find our next job? What about all of the other people we are “competing with” in the job market? The questions seem to have no end. And even though we know that many of the questions won’t be helpful to us we feel compelled to ask them anyway.

So since we are going to ask questions, why not ask questions that will help prepare us for what is next in our lives? For example, is there something much better out there for me that I would never have found because I was just so comfortable where I was? We all know people who dislike their jobs but stay because they are afraid to leave.

I was laid off from that same company ten months ago. When that happened I knew two things. The first was that it was time to leave but I held on to what I thought was safe and secure. The second was that there truly was something better for me out there if I could just stop the chorus of couldas, wouldas and shouldas reverberating in my head just long enough to listen to that still small voice in my heart. Whether you call that voice God or Source or the Universe or the Light does not matter. What matters is that you get quiet and take the time to listen.

When you listen with your heart you will know deep inside your self that there is a beautiful gift hidden within the confusion and disorientation of job loss. That gift is in being reconnected to your self, to the essence of who you really are. It is the part that is easy to forget about when we are wrapped up in the world that we think is safe and secure. When we lose that connection to our true selves: our souls, we are not really living. We just think we are.

When we are connected to ourselves and our source of guidance we realize that we did not lose a job. We gained a second chance at the life we were meant to have.

“Sometimes goodbye is a second chance.”- Shinedown

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Lynn Everard

Please note: The author is not a licensed medical or psychological professional and the contents of this blog and its posts are not to prescribe cures or solutions. The reader assumes all responsibility for using the contents for his or her own edification.